Tuesday, October 26, 2010

Points on How to Improve Your Life

This is not my own writing. Someone had email me with this really nice points. Let us share it together J
Personality:

1. Don't compare your life to others'. You have no idea what their journey is all about. (kalau nak compare gak, sila compare dengan seseorang yang kurang bernasib baik daripada kita)
2. Don't have negative thoughts of things you cannot control. Instead invest your energy in the   positive present moment.
3. Don't over do; keep your limits.
4. Don't take yourself so seriously; no one else does.
5. Don't waste your precious energy on gossip (dear me, please take note!)
6. Dream more while you are awake.
7. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need. (bersyukur! InsyaAllah, akan bertambah kenikmatan hidup)
TQ to Google

8. Forget issues of the past. Don't remind your partner of his/her mistakes of the past. That will ruin your present happiness. (tapi, kadang-kadang…dia datang jugak :(
)
9. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. Don't hate others. (Oh, this one is tough! Terutama untuk orang-orang yang hurrmm….. Maybe I can turn the hate feeling to ‘malas nak layan’ or ‘lantak dia lah, dia memang dah ada ‘sakit’ semulajadi’…hehe)
10. Make peace with your past so it won't spoil the present.
11. No one is in charge of your happiness except you (Yes, agreed.)
12. Realize that life is a school and you are here to learn. Problems are simply part of the curriculum that appear and fade away like algebra class but the lessons you learn will last a lifetime. (I like this analogy)
13. Smile and laugh more (yang nih aku terror)
14. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.

Community:

15. Call your family often. (Agreed!)
16. Each day give something good to others. (kalau kita gembirakan hati orang lain, hati kita pasti Allah jaga dan gembirakan jugak).
17. Forgive everyone for everything. (same as ‘saranan’ Dr Fadzilah Kamsah, and the best time is before you sleep, every night)
18. Spend time with people over the age of 70 & under the age of 6. (You will learn a lot from them, terutamanya tentang erti kesabaran)
19. Try to make at least three people smile each day.
20. What other people think of you is none of your business. (Tapi kita selalu akan fikirkan pasal ni jugak kan…)
21. Your job will not take care of you when you are sick. Your family and friends will. Stay in touch. (Friends pun tak ramai yang akan do take care of us…hanya segelintir, terutama yang berukhuwah atas dasar iman dan taqwa))

Life:

22. Put ALLAH first in anything and everything that you think, say and do.
23. ALLAH heals everything. (hanya Dia tempat terbaik untuk mengadu segala keperitan hidup)
24. Do the right things.
25. However good or bad a situation is, it will change. (bersabar dengan kesusahan dan jangan bangga diri dengan kejayaan yang hanya sementara)
26. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up. (Hoh, I loikee~)
27. The best is yet to come. (don’t stop praying)
28. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful.
29. When you awake alive in the morning, thank ALLAH for it. (sila jangan lupa baca doa bangun tidur!)
30. If you know ALLAH, you will always be happy. So, be happy.

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